I can go to Germany,
my kids can go to Ireland or Finland, etc. to see a fairly accurate representation of
that cultural heritage with folks in power reflective of the ethnicity participating in a broad range
of occupations at that - stereotypes or not. That cannot be said for Native
Americans and is why it is essential that my allies work with me to tell the
Native story - there is no other place where it is told. It is the absence of images, stories, and truths juxtaposed next to stereotypes that make the impact of those assumptions so damaging - there is nothing to counter them!
I fast and
don't "celebrate" Thanksgiving. There is only a miniscule part
of our story that is ever told and almost always in a stereotypical, incorrect,
or offensive way, denying the genocide of people and culture. The flip
side is that folks who have their stories told and their holidays off, have
very little awareness of their privilege in having that (and, frankly, want
more! like a half day before a holiday). Folks want to hold on to oppressive
"traditions" and blame the victims for complaining, or not educating
them about alternatives, when it is really their work to undo what has been
done, given that they, as a whole, have way more power than the oppressed
group.
I don't think any teacher in the States has ever had to leave lesson plans
on Thanksgiving or Christmas, but I do for every Solstice and Equinox when I take those observances as "personal days." How many people have to take Christmas as a "personal day"? I also can not send my children
anywhere (no country, no school, no house of worship, no embassy, etc.) to
learn their Arawak culture, history, or language. In addition, their history
and culture is rarely told in movies, books, school, etc., but the person who
committed a genocide has a holiday named after him (Columbus). If you can,
do, or could educate your children about their own ethnic heritage then you have power
and privilege (and probably don't even notice that you do).
I can't think of anything similar to any other group, certainly not in the history of the United States, than what has happened
to the Native Nations.
~ Claudia A. Fox Tree